Something’s Off — But No One’s Listening

Who Do You Turn to When You Know Something’s Off—But No One’s Listening?

You’re not feeling like yourself.
Maybe you’re exhausted all the time, snapping at your family, or crying over things that never used to get to you. Your sleep is off. Your energy is low. Maybe intimacy is uncomfortable—or completely off the table. You feel bloated, inflamed, and out of control in a body that used to feel familiar. You think, “Maybe it’s my hormones.”

So, you make the logical choice—you go to your primary care doctor.
They order labs. The results come back “normal.” They tell you everything looks fine.

You still don’t feel fine.

Next stop: OB-GYN.
They see you for five minutes and tell you it’s probably perimenopause. “It’s normal,” they say. “Just get better sleep, eat well, and hang in there.”

You leave that appointment feeling unheard, dismissed—and still not yourself.

So who do you turn to?

In my experience, this is when people start trying everything.

  • They try functional medicine—which can be helpful, but is often expensive and overwhelming.

  • They sign up for courses, take up new hobbies, try every supplement they hear about on podcasts.

  • They spend hundreds of dollars—sometimes more—and they’re still shooting in the dark, with no clear idea what they’re actually treating.

What if I told you... there’s a better way?

At Arbor Internal Medicine, I created something just for women like you:
The Vaginal and Hormone Health Evaluation.

It’s a personalized assessment designed to dig into what’s really going on with your body—your hormones, your vaginal health, your emotions, your metabolism, and more. From there, we decide together:
Do you need one or two targeted treatments?
Or do we need to take a more comprehensive approach?

If so, I invite you to join my Revive Membership—a six-month journey where I walk one-on-one with you to help you get back to yourself. You’ll have monthly visits, personalized treatment plans, and support through text and phone check-ins. You’ll never feel like you're figuring it out alone again.

Because here’s the truth:
You are beautiful.
You are meant to be desired, romanced, and seen.
You are meant to play an important role in your own life.

But when you’re dealing with things like:

  • Vaginal pain or dryness

  • Urinary leakage

  • Low libido

  • Sleepless nights

  • Chronic fatigue

  • Mood swings

  • Feeling like a stranger to yourself...

…it’s hard to be who you want to be.

If the people around you are saying, “What’s going on? You’ve changed…”
If you’re crying in the car or skipping date night or pretending you feel fine when you don’t—please come see me.

You don’t have to live like this.
You don’t have to “wait it out.”
You don’t have to be dismissed by another five-minute appointment.

At Arbor Internal Medicine, we don’t give band-aid solutions. We get to the root of what’s going on and walk with you toward healing.

Let’s help you feel like you again.

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